Introduction
This is how to get your ex back in 7 days without begging.
Don’t stop it.
You get it. You want to be with your ex again and in order to do that, you need to act like nothing happened.
You were together for two years, or four years and maybe even ten years! You were probably planning on spending the rest of your lives together. Suddenly all this drama comes along and now all that time seems wasted as if it wasn’t real at all.
As I said before: don’t stop doing things you used to do together! Don’t stop talking about things you used to talk about together! Don’t stop going out with friends because there’s more chance he/she will come back if they see how happy you are without them! And don’t stop doing things YOU love! The best way for him/her to miss YOU is by showing yourself having fun without them nearby (but let them know about it).
Being totally okay with it.
Being totally okay with it.
This is really important. If you’re not, your ex will sense that something is off, and their confidence in the breakup will waver. They might even come back to you! Sure, that might happen—but if it does, it won’t be for the right reasons (meaning: because they want to). You don’t have any control over this sort of thing anyway; all we can do is practice self-acceptance and hope for the best.
So what does “being totally okay with it” mean? It means letting go of any feelings of resentment or anger toward your ex (or anyone else who may have contributed to this situation). It means giving yourself permission to be happy without them in your life—and being proud when you succeed at doing so! You deserve happiness as much as anyone else does—and there’s no way around this fact: being happy makes everyone look better by comparison
Don’t push for anything.
This is a big one. If you’re begging for another chance, it’s not going to work. You have to remember that they are not in love with you anymore and they do not want to be in a relationship with you. You may feel like there’s still hope, but if you push too hard, it will just make things worse.
If your ex is being difficult and refusing to talk on the phone or see you in person, don’t try harder by showing up at their house uninvited. Don’t send them more texts or emails than usual—this will only make them think that something has changed and make them more likely to say no the next time around (you want them saying yes). Instead of pressuring your ex into talking about getting back together again by sending over flowers or chocolates every day for three weeks straight, just wait until she asks what’s going on with your life before continuing with any communications after a break up has occurred!
Be okay with it and then completely move on.
The key to getting your ex back is letting go of the past. If you’re still hung up on why they left or how they hurt you, then there’s nothing more to say here. We just want your best interests at heart and if you’re mired in resentment and anger, then it’s going to be difficult for us (and anyone else) to help you move forward.
If that’s the case, then…
Conclusion
I know this may seem like a lot to take in, but this is the most important step to get your ex back. It’s all about being okay with not having them in your life and moving on. Once you do that, then everything else will fall into place. This is why I created this article so that people can learn from my mistakes!
